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#1 JaneDoe2010

Posted 06 December 2012 - 05:33 PM

Is it judging if you judge someone for judging someone? Is that premissable judging?

#2 Drowningnotwaving

Posted 06 December 2012 - 05:36 PM

Ahh the old catch 22.

#3 Tigerdog

Posted 06 December 2012 - 05:44 PM

I would say not because by judging them all you are doing is mitigating their initial judging so it all comes out even in the end happy.gif

Edited by Tigerdog, 06 December 2012 - 05:44 PM.


#4 MammaBee81

Posted 06 December 2012 - 05:54 PM

I think all judging is not only permissible - it's essential... it's how we make sense of events (and people) and measure them against others we have experienced so that we can develop an appropriate response to them.

Our judgements change over time as we gain more life experience.

I think the issue is sharing your judgements or acting on them when you haven't had enough life experience to make the response an appropriate one. Sometimes it is important to reserve our opinions or actions when we know that we don't have enough life experience to make an informed decision. Not passing judgement is also a judgement call.

Unfortunately, many times people don't recognise when to, and when not to.

If you're passing judgement on someone for making an erroneous judgement about someone else, it might be a good idea to step back and consider whether the person making the first judgement just needs a bit of additional life experience. Education all the way, I say!

xxb

#5 niggles

Posted 06 December 2012 - 06:12 PM

I have no issue with any of that judgement except the judginess about judgement.

#6 Mitis angelam

Posted 06 December 2012 - 06:21 PM

I think the point is to judge with the same compassion, understanding and mercy with which you would like to be judged.

#7 Feral_Pooks

Posted 06 December 2012 - 06:24 PM

I judge you for not knowing that it's fine to judge people for judging others.

#8 niggles

Posted 06 December 2012 - 06:27 PM

QUOTE (Ange Vert @ 06/12/2012, 04:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think the point is to judge with the same compassion, understanding and mercy with which you would like to be judged.


And not to prejudge.

#9 BadCat

Posted 06 December 2012 - 06:30 PM

Judging is always appropriate.  Like chocolate.

#10 Rainbow Brite

Posted 06 December 2012 - 06:33 PM

Everyone judges. Varying degrees of judginess! It is just part of life.

EFS

Edited by Madam Plum, 06 December 2012 - 06:58 PM.


#11 Kwyjibo

Posted 06 December 2012 - 06:34 PM

Permissible, yes.

Judge away.

<gavel>

#12 purplekitty

Posted 06 December 2012 - 06:34 PM

I always judge subconsciously and avoid the guilt.



#13 peking homunculus

Posted 06 December 2012 - 06:40 PM

I prefer to think of it as critically evaluating

#14 **Xena**

Posted 06 December 2012 - 07:17 PM

I try not to judge but I do often judge people who are judging so I guess that makes me judgemental.

Best sentence ever and if anyone judges otherwise I reserve the right to judge them wink.gif

#15 Fr0g

Posted 06 December 2012 - 07:18 PM

It's always ok to judge when somebody uses the phrase "Judgey McJudge". I think very poorly of people who say/ think/ live this phrase.

What was the question again? unsure.gif

#16 BetteBoop

Posted 06 December 2012 - 07:22 PM

What if the person you are judging for judging someone else, works out you are judging them and judges you for being judgemental?

Is that allowable? Or does it just make your ears bleed?

#17 JaneDoe2010

Posted 06 December 2012 - 07:31 PM

QUOTE (Pooks_ @ 06/12/2012, 07:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I judge you for not knowing that it's fine to judge people for judging others.


laugh.gif

QUOTE (BetteBoop @ 06/12/2012, 08:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What if the person you are judging for judging someone else, works out you are judging them and judges you for being judgemental?

Is that allowable? Or does it just make your ears bleed?


roll2.gif

#18 raven74

Posted 06 December 2012 - 08:17 PM

I'm judging right now.
War Horse?
Spielberg, you've been judged.
And found wanting.




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