I'm going through a rough time at the moment, and am just struggling a bit.
A brief history:
My husband left me after a 10 year marriage fraught with many problems. He left me on Valentine's day, for another woman that he lined up via online dating. During our marriage I had 4 miscarriages. Finally we had our beautiful DS. And then XH became suicidal and wanted to take both his life and our DS's. Long story, lots of other issues.
After he left I lost our house. Our DS was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome (amongst a lot of other issues).
I had a head on collision into a tree (in the wet) and wrote off my car.
I have 20+ breast tumours which require constant monitoring, testing, biopsies etc.
Then earlier this year I met someone fantastic - 18 months after XH left. For the first time in my life I felt genuine happiness. And hope.
Then he "discontinued our relationship" via email. On our anniversary, and while I had gastro.
I was crushed. More so than even when XH left.
Then later this year I met someone else. He seemed fantastic, I liked him a lot. Trusted him. On Monday I found his profile on an online dating site. And we broke up.
I'm in no way feeling sorry for myself with the above. Just trying to explain how I have gotten to this point.
I guess I just look at everyone around me. With partners, and families. Happy and stable.
I am just struggling to find hope anymore. When I look at the future I just see an endless struggle day in day out.
I do have a long history of depression and anxiety. I'm currently on anti-depressants. I've seen more psychiatrists and psychologists than I can count.
So I guess I'm looking for stories of hope. Of happy endings. Of positivity.
Just trying to find reasons to keep battling through.
Thank you for reading if you have gotten this far
(please please don't quote me. There is a lot of identifying information which I will probably delete later. Thank you)
Edited by ♥~Bodhichitta~♥, 09 December 2012 - 08:12 AM.