Ok I'm being lazy.
I checked out the apple support page and it talked about setting up sharing etc.
Maybe I haven't consumed enough caffeine this morning, but my eyes started to glaze over and the information wasn't able to penetrate by feeble brain.
Once I have it set up, I will be passing on my computer to my MIL who doesn't need iTunes, so I just want to transfer the lot over (no music only videos and apps) for my phone.
Can anyone give me a quick run down on how to do it? Pretty please