The wife is pushing for another child and her DH agreed to one under strict "conditions" and has stated numerous times that he doesn't want anymore children. He has other kids to a past relationship and has told my DH that he is secretly going to get a vasectomy and not tell his wife.
Their relationship is very "different".
Would you tell he wife that:
A) the husband is planning a vasectomy or
B) if he has already had the vasectomy, that he had one and that's why she's not having any luck falling pregnant
C) say nothing and mind my own business.
I think I should mind my own business but when speaking to a third party, she thinks I should tell the wife. I don't feel like I know her well enough.
What do you think?
ETA: I also don't know the DH well enough to talk to him and my DH has told her DH that he thinks that's a sucky thing to do but that's about it.
Edited by Sunnycat, 21 January 2013 - 08:40 PM.