there may come a time where the thought of a school mate seeing him walk out of the ladies room motivates a full changeover
Haven't had this happen yet but yes, good point!
He should be going to mens alone at that age like PP women should expect not to have males in the female toilets past year 1 age if you are worried wait out side
Really? You would send a four year old into the toilets alone?
It wouldn't bother me in normal circumstances. I do however feel that he's old enough to go to the loo by himself with you outside.
I wonder how he feels going to the ladies as well. I know mine would be horrified, and told me so.
My son is a young 9, had speech and language delay and some behaviours which have meant I have waited until he is ready to start going into the mens toilets alone. I am not dragging him into the ladies against his will