However there is this little boy who is upset whenever I drop DD off. He is crying or has tear stained cheeks, comes running up to me and holds out his arms for me to pick him up, or just aimlessly wanders around crying. The childcare workers aren't holding him or comforting him. It's been like this for weeks and my heart breaks every time I see him. Then the other day I noticed no crying. I look around for him and he is sitting in a corner, back to the room, sucking on a comforter and staring and the floor. For some reason I found this worse than the crying...
I haven't said anything because I feel like I'd be interfering and for all I know he is like this for a bit after drop off and is fine for the rest of the day. But it just pains me to think this could be my DD, as well as concern for him. How do I know if they are being truthful when they say DD has been fine, and do they comfort her when she gets upset. On times I know she has been upset, for example one time she wouldn't sleep, I phoned them up for an update and they went through in detail of everything they did until she finally slept and there was lots of comforting. However I just can't get this little boy out of my head.
I don't know what I'm asking here, I guess this is a cry for reassurance or a way to say something without sounding interfering.
Edited by WaitForIt, 22 February 2013 - 09:28 PM.