So this year we decided that "this was it". We HAVE to move on. I've taken on that extra work again starting in July and we are going to buy a house at the end of the year. We'll put away enough money to do one more egg pick up after we use the 4 we have frozen. I told my husband I will need lots of fur-babies to pour my all my pent up love into if I cant be a mother - we might even do pet rescue work. I will also consider fostering children at some point.
Do think about what you can do and move on when you're ready. Slow steps. You have invested so much time and effort into it, you deserve to achieve all the goals you want for yourself - and if after all of that we fall pregnant then we will be stronger and more appreciative of all those things than the others who haven't gone through what we have gone through. You can always quit a job or reduce hours, work load etc. I wish I'd done this sooner by my heart just wasn't in it.
What do you want to do everyone? What have you been putting off? Lets put it down on paper. They say its a way of holding yourself to goals.
Me: I'm going to buy a home in 2013, get a dog, succeed in my promotion and earn more money (and hopefully have a baby along the way).
P.s sorry for long posts - Im making up for lost time
Edited by MRae, 19 June 2013 - 05:28 PM.