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#1 Maree83

Posted 24 December 2017 - 02:17 PM

Four years ago I lost my beautiful son, he was taken away from me way too soon. Even though four years has passed, it doesn't hurt any less. I miss him so much. Unfortunately, after all this time, a lot of people don't want to hear about him any more hence why I am here.
Apparently, we should be over it by now. We will never get over losing him, we have just learnt to live with the pain.
Christmas is a double edged sword dor us, we lost our boy on Christmas eve, but want to make Christmas time super special for our girls.
I miss him so much. I can still remember his smell and how it felt to hold him.

#2 No Drama Please

Posted 24 December 2017 - 02:24 PM

I’m so sorry, Maree83, I can’t imagine how hard this time of year must be for you and your partner. I will definitely think of your beautiful boy today and tomorrow. Be gentle to yourself xx

#3 eponee

Posted 24 December 2017 - 02:28 PM

Special thoughts to you and your son's dad, your girls and your son tomorrow xx

Edited by eponee, 24 December 2017 - 02:28 PM.

#4 cvbn

Posted 24 December 2017 - 02:32 PM

I will be thinking of your sweet boy Maree.

#5 somila

Posted 24 December 2017 - 02:48 PM

Praying prayers of thanksgiving for the gift of your precious boy, prayers for comfort for you, and prayers for joy for your girls this Christmas.

#6 little lion

Posted 24 December 2017 - 02:56 PM

How terrible that nobody will let you talk about him. I’m sorry. This must be a hard day for you every year.

#7 just roses

Posted 24 December 2017 - 03:10 PM

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious boy. And I’m so sorry people expect you to be ‘over it’. Obviously they have never lost a child. My Nana still grieved her stillborn daughter in her 90s. It doesn’t go away.

#8 Gruffalo's Child

Posted 24 December 2017 - 03:11 PM

I am so sorry that you are finding people don't want to talk about him anymore, I imagine that it would be such an important thing for you to do.  You will always be his Mum, and he will always be a very important part of your life.    Sending you prayers for your son, and for you and your girls.

#9 Shapir0

Posted 24 December 2017 - 03:48 PM

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son.

#10 the abc

Posted 24 December 2017 - 04:20 PM

Also thinking of your little boy. Cherish your memories

#11 HolleyShiftwell

Posted 24 December 2017 - 04:39 PM

I'm not sure why people think there's some magical time-period that lapses and grief just disappears :no2:

Will be thinking of you tomorrow xx

#12 LouLou86

Posted 24 December 2017 - 04:58 PM

So sorry for you loss xx What was your little boy's name? Sending you hugs xx

#13 ksds

Posted 24 December 2017 - 05:51 PM

I am so sorry for your loss...

#14 Dianalynch

Posted 24 December 2017 - 06:04 PM

I'm thinking of you all.

#15 Lifesgood

Posted 24 December 2017 - 06:13 PM

I will say a prayer for you and your beautiful boy. My heart breaks for you OP.

#16 Deb999

Posted 24 December 2017 - 06:58 PM

I'm so sorry Maree, I will be thinking of you and your beautiful boy tonight.

#17 kerilyntaryn

Posted 24 December 2017 - 07:31 PM

Praying for you tonight and for all the family tomorrow,  hugs

#18 c.sanders

Posted 24 December 2017 - 11:44 PM

That's wrong. He will always be your son you will never stop being his mum. I'm sorry people just dont get it.

#19 Overtherainbow

Posted 25 December 2017 - 12:11 AM

He is your son and always will be. You never need to stop loving him, thinking of him, missing him.

Take care. We lost a loved one on Christmas Day and I understand. There are no rules to loss, grief and how you deal with it.

#20 ELF_em_bee

Posted 25 December 2017 - 07:24 AM

Of course I will pray for your darling boy, and for you also xoxo

#21 hjv

Posted 25 December 2017 - 08:10 AM

Prayers and hugs for you and your beautiful son.

I am so sorry xx

#22 Mishu

Posted 25 December 2017 - 08:54 AM

Thinking of you & your son today

#23 swirlygirl

Posted 25 December 2017 - 08:58 AM

Thinking of you, your little boy, and your family xx

#24 onetrick

Posted 25 December 2017 - 09:56 AM

There’s no magic time limit for grief, and holidays and special occasions are always the hardest- regardless of when a loved one passed in the year.
Thinking of you and your family today, OP xx

#25 Sunshine streaming

Posted 25 December 2017 - 10:15 AM

Thinking of you and your special boy on this day and always. Sorry for your loss.

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