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#1 22Fruitmincepies

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:08 PM

A beautiful EB member’s baby was stillborn late last year. She is hurting so much, but doesn’t feel up to reaching out for support here. So with her permission, I’m starting a thread for her. I know that she will be reading.

#2 Mrs Zee

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:09 PM

I am so sorry for her loss. 💕

#3 JBH

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:12 PM

I am thinking of her, and of her precious baby.

#4 twin2

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:16 PM

I'm so sorry thinking of her and her baby

#5 Nobodyelse

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:18 PM

I'm so sorry for her loss. I hope she's doing ok.

#6 Yippee-Ki-Yay

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:18 PM

Dear EBer, I am so terribly sorry for your terrible loss. I am saddened to hear that you are having a rough time. Please consider reaching out to local loss groups. I think a part of most people's grief is a feeling overwhelming isolation. I hope you can feel some comfort from this thread.

#7 BlackBetty

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:19 PM

Sending love. I hope tomorrows sunshine warms you soul and helps lighten your heavy heart xx

#8 Mumma3

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:21 PM

Dear EB sister, I’m so sorry for the loss of your precious and beautiful little one. I’m hope you and your partner have loving people around you to share in your grief.
Be gentle with yourself and with each other, and know that when you are ready to share, there are many EB members who would love to hear about your baby.
Much love.

#9 Mooples

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:24 PM

Sending big hugs, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you feel ready to reach out for support soon xx

#10 maryanneK

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:26 PM

I'm so, truly very sorry for your loss, whoever you are.
Its just the most desperately sad thing. My heart breaks for you.

#11 Future-self

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:37 PM

Oh how heartbreaking.
I'm just so sad that you and your family are having to endure such a loss.
Thinking of you

#12 littleboysmum

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:37 PM

I am so devastated to hear of the loss of your beautiful baby. Please know that we are all here for support and that there are also a number of really great support services such as Bears of Hope. A good psychologist who specialises in women’s health/ pregnancy and infant loss can also be invaluable as you negotiate the rough waters of grief. Please know you are not alone. My heart is aching for you.

#13 Islander

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:37 PM

I’m so sad for you and yours. Such a huge grief. Xx

#14 cvbn

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:40 PM

Thinking of you and your dear little one.

#15 MooGuru

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:43 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss.
If you ever want to talk about your beautiful baby,  PM me,  I'd love to know about your little one and how you are going.

I know of a great psych who specialises in infant loss based in western Sydney- my friend found her very helpful.
She also accessed support through SAND.

Man reality is a real b**ch sometimes.

#16 little lion

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:43 PM

I’m so sorry for the loss of your precious baby. If one day you feel up to telling us about your child, we would love to share that with you.

#17 *cough*

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:44 PM

I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how you are feeling. Sending you love and strength xx

#18 Cocoa Trufflespice

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:46 PM

Thinking of you and your beautiful angel. I’m so sorry for your loss 💜Xx

#19 MrsPuddleduck

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:55 PM

If she would like to talk to someone who understands, she is more than welcome to PM me.

It is the worst, worst thing; and so unfair.

#20 Seven of Nine

Posted 06 February 2019 - 08:58 PM

I'm so sorry this has happened to you and to your little one EBer. It is so unfair. Your precious baby will not be forgotten. Sending love.

#21 Soontobegran

Posted 06 February 2019 - 09:00 PM

How heartbreaking.
Dear EB member......I am so so sorry and sad that you lost your precious baby. We are here if you do want to talk.

Thank you 22 fmp for letting us know.

#22 Lifesgood

Posted 06 February 2019 - 09:01 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine the grief you must be experiencing. My heart goes out to you.

If and when you feel ready I would love to hear about your baby. Also if and when you are ready please share how you feel and how you are managing hour to hour, day to day. It must be such a struggle and may help to discuss it here.

PS. Thanks OP for starting this thread, it is very kind of you.

#23 Bethlehem Babe

Posted 06 February 2019 - 09:02 PM

Sending you love and support.

I’m so very sorry that this has happened.

#24 Tinselonthefloor

Posted 06 February 2019 - 09:09 PM

Thinking of you and your beautiful precious baby

#25 Mishu

Posted 06 February 2019 - 09:09 PM

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Life is just so unfair to some. I’m thinking of you and your baby tonight.

And if you ever feel up to sharing, we would love to hear more about your beautiful baby.

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