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#1 bubskitkat

Posted 09 November 2019 - 08:45 AM

Got a call early this morning my ex had my son.

I have had to drive over to get my son & help clean as he got his hands onto a fire starter (his dad has a fire place).

The curtains are gone & house is badly smoke damaged.

My son & the cats are ok.

#2 BECZ

Posted 09 November 2019 - 08:57 AM

Oh no!

So glad that everyone is ok though.

#3 SM3s Fight Song

Posted 09 November 2019 - 09:00 AM

I'm sorry bubskitkat.  I'm glad everyone is OK.

#4 K.heather

Posted 09 November 2019 - 10:00 AM

So sorry to hear that. Hope you are all ok .X.

#5 bubskitkat

Posted 09 November 2019 - 10:13 AM

Some days you have to laugh or you would start crying and never sto

#6 SM3s Fight Song

Posted 09 November 2019 - 10:27 AM

((((((bubskitkat))))))

#7 bubskitkat

Posted 09 November 2019 - 12:50 PM

I’ve got him and he’s ok

#8 Murderino

Posted 09 November 2019 - 01:30 PM

I’m glad your son is okay.

I wouldn’t have helped you abusive ex clean up. I’d have collected your DS and left ex to clean up - he was the responsible adult in the house when it happened so it’s his responsibility to clean it.

#9 kadoodle

Posted 09 November 2019 - 05:27 PM

Yikes! I’m glad your boy and the kitties are fine, and your ex can have a long hard think about his parenting skills while he scrubs off the black.

#10 bubskitkat

Posted 09 November 2019 - 06:28 PM

I’m still shaking. My son has been up and down all afternoon. He had a meltdown in Aldi and I just sat on the floor comforting him. He’s had quite the shock

What type of person leaves a fire lighter out where a child could get it. Seriously.

#11 magic_marker

Posted 09 November 2019 - 06:58 PM

Your d***head ex, that's who.
Glad your DS is okay.
Hope this shocks your ex into being a grown up human :)

#12 1975ladybug

Posted 09 November 2019 - 07:03 PM

View Postbubskitkat, on 09 November 2019 - 06:28 PM, said:

I’m still shaking. My son has been up and down all afternoon. He had a meltdown in Aldi and I just sat on the floor comforting him. He’s had quite the shock

What type of person leaves a fire lighter out where a child could get it. Seriously.

Someone who will set a child up to fail,

I’m so sorry, hope your boy settles over the weekend,

hugs

Edited by 1975ladybug, 09 November 2019 - 07:03 PM.


#13 SM3s Fight Song

Posted 09 November 2019 - 07:30 PM

I hope this does shock him into being more responsible.  Unfortunately he strikes me as the kind more likely to say ds shouldn't have touched it rather then taking personal responsibility for the fact his **** up caused this. hugs bubskitkat.  I hope you and ds have a much better day tomorrow.

#14 123tree

Posted 10 November 2019 - 09:01 AM

Can we change the title of this thread to “husband failed to supervise DS resulting in a fire”

I’m sure your DS had quite a shock. Big hugs.

#15 IamzFeralz

Posted 10 November 2019 - 10:22 AM

It is concerning together with all the patterns you have mentioned in your other threads about your ex’s general lack of capacity.  Are you still going to send your DS on unsupervised stays with him?

#16 wilding

Posted 10 November 2019 - 12:36 PM

Oh Bubs, my heart sank when I read this yesterday. Glad your son is ok. That father of his on the other hand ggrrrrr. No words.

#17 bubskitkat

Posted 10 November 2019 - 01:53 PM

View PostIamzFeralz, on 10 November 2019 - 10:22 AM, said:

It is concerning together with all the patterns you have mentioned in your other threads about your ex’s general lack of capacity.  Are you still going to send your DS on unsupervised stays with him?

This is something that I’m going to have to think long and hard about.




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