What do we j is about this child and her prior behaviour though? At 16 my DD could not be trusted at all, and I made it clear to her that she was not trusted. Maybe this 16 year old had also behaved in a way that meant she was not trusted? Sneaking someone into the house at night might demonstrate that she was not trustworthy, rather than that she was unjustly not trusted.
Edited by Tinkle Splashes, 09 January 2020 - 01:35 AM.