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#1 Nappypin

Posted 04 January 2011 - 08:11 PM

Hello there,

I am not sure i am in the right area, but i was wondering what people think of meeting new people and frequently crossing paths with them? Coincidence or fate?

I met this fellow through business and we have a customer client relationsip, very trusting too, never flirty either, just good old fashion trust and service. But in the last 6 months i see this person in my family time in public where it was a huge coincidence.  I am not worried or freaked out, i was just wondering if our paths that keep crossing means anything?

What do you think?

#2 ctsmum

Posted 05 January 2011 - 12:36 PM

Hi! I definitely believe in crossing paths with someone. It may appear as a coincidence or a series of coincidences. Sometimes we cross paths because we've decided we want a change and "like attracts like" - so to speak - and that's been happening a lot lately. Sometimes we cross paths with people whom we've had a previous connection with in our past lifetime(s) - this can be a good thing or a bad thing. My own experience is that I crossed path with whom I'm now married to but I couldn't explain the feeling that I had for him when I first knew him. My best friend's experience was that she crossed path with someone whom she WAS married to in her PAST LIFE and had to resolve issues with him in order to move on in this lifetime.

In other words, I don't believe it's coincidental - I believe it's fated.

Good luck with it all.

#3 Nappypin

Posted 05 January 2011 - 03:04 PM

wow ctsmum that is truly amazing ! Some things are truly unbelievable to be a coincidence i think. I suppose the thing i think of is the reasoning behind it, like do you go with it, or shut it out. (if that makes sense. happy.gif

#4 msjak

Posted 05 January 2011 - 09:27 PM

I find this topic interesting. I don't know with any certainty but my thoughts are that it's fate. I believe that if that person is bought to your attention as you mention, that at some time or another there will be a reason why. Who knows what it will be?

My Dh and i have numerous amounts of times where we crossed paths and could have met but didn't. I believe fate bought us together when the timing was right wink.gif

#5 Nappypin

Posted 06 January 2011 - 03:27 PM

there has to be some sort of force working away, it is just too much of a coincidence.

#6 *sassy*

Posted 09 January 2011 - 09:56 PM

This is very interesting.  I believe that there are no coincidences - things happen for a reason.  I think that if you keep crossing paths with someone then there is a reason for it - either you will learn something from them or be helped by them or vice-versa.  

I'm particularly curious about this:

My best friend's experience was that she crossed path with someone whom she WAS married to in her PAST LIFE and had to resolve issues with him in order to move on in this lifetime.

How did she know she was married to this person in a previous life?

#7 ctsmum

Posted 10 January 2011 - 05:33 PM

My best friend had a relationship with this guy for many years. She found him to be abusive, overly protective and very untrusting of her but somehow just don't know why she was ok with it, still wanted to be with him and tried to conform to his needs. She just put it down to "making him happy", and thnking that it's best for the both of them.

Lots of things happened which made her decide to leave him finally.

Months later, she went for a life regression with a hypnotherapist and saw for herself how she was married to him, in an arranged marriage, how unhappy she was, and how he was never home nor ever loved her. She saw herself crying, all alone in a large castle and that he was never there for her.

She has since become herself once again, back to her happy, bubbly self which I'm very glad about :)

#8 sparky17

Posted 10 January 2011 - 06:13 PM

I find you cross paths with people when you need them in your life, they may leave once the lesson or event has passed or may stay with you.
My Dh father passed before I knew him, but my father worked with his father many years before, My ex-boyfriend said that Dh and I should get together many years before the fact. Our neighbour knew my Dh before I met him and he would have been next door on some occassions.
Our paths crossed when it was meant to be and not before.

When people come in and out of your life they may be there to help you learn a life lesson or support you in that part of your life journey and then leave, but remember you too could enter a persons life as you help others through their journey too.


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