Dd for way to many years to count has always been very aggressive. Always arguing with ds, hits, pinches, kicks, worst a few times been known to spit.
She will growl at us if she doesn't get her way, or making a gesture of a biting motion. Instead of talking and using a normal voice to figure out a solution she goes straight for yelling.
The moment we sit down for meals she starts yelling at ds to eat with his mouth closed. Which the only time ds has his mouth open is to take a bite or maybe to breathe if he has a blocked nose.
I am at my wits end, i have major stomach pains from the stress of my daily struggle. I am comforting eating like Tomorrow.
Over the years i have tried time out, punishments eg no tv. No matter what nothing has worked.
She can be a very beautiful girl, with an amazing humor and i always tried to remember these elements of her to get me through the bad times. But with the pain i am in now from the stress of it all. I am pushed beyond my limit now. Hard to see the beautiful things when your doubled over in pain.
She is mostly like this at home, or with mil at times. Rarely does this show in public. The only time i have seen her get angry at her friends is the Christmas school holidays where a friend and i spent most days together to let our kids play. So then she let slip a few times of her angry temperament.
There must be some professional i can take her to? I have spoken to my gp before about it and he just made a comment like i have 2 out of control kids
(ds is a bit immature with socially, which is improving heaps with him being in school)
HELP!! I love her to bits, atm i just don't want to be around her.