QUOTE (Dad2Bsoon @ 11/08/2012, 08:52 PM)
any idea if any of the midwifes frequent these forums? I am new here. Just joined.
You may be suprised by the range of medical professionals who have read your questions and possibly even answered it.
If you read the responses you will see that your question has been answered. No one here can know if your wife had an HIV test or not. They are not compulsory for anyone.
Take your son to a doctor if you have reason to believe his current illness in not just a nasty flu. If you have concerns about risk of HIV transmitted by your wife ask to have your son's blood tested as well as your own.