QUOTE (3Keiki @ 22/11/2012, 04:51 PM)
AngeVert this is a problem too - I am in fact a 'practising' christian SIL comes from a kinda odd break away religion and that is the religion in which the baby is being christianed. I also have to attend some meetings with the pastor so I can be educated about the religion beforehand.
Well there is your opportunity to politely excuse yourself.
FWIW, I think it sounds like they are trying to keep you in the family and your husbands memory alive. Unless they have been particularly nasty, or you feel the relationship with them is doomed, I would probably just agree to it.