A good pysch is worth their weight in gold. BMJ has a list, I think, if you need a recommendation, Lightening Bug. Our psych specialises in children with ADHD, ASD, learning disorders/giftedness etc and I believe you need to find someone like that if possible. She was really able to understand what we were going through and come up with concrete ways to help us. She works well with DD's school and OT and I feel so lucky to have found her.
Hope things improve for you all soon.
This post has been edited by amabanana: 15/12/2012, 01:47 PM