[nationalvelvet]

I belong to a small FB group and there is one lady in the group who totally ignores me. I have now gathered that she doesnt like me.
So I want to block her.
If I block her will it still show other people responding to my posts?
She won't see me but she will see others responding to my posts.

This will only anger her and I don't want that .
I really want to keep the peace.

Any other suggestions

This post has been edited by lindenen: 01/01/2013, 04:44 PM

[ubermum]

Ignore her back.

[blackcat20]

AFAIK she wont be able to see your post or any responses.

I was recently blocked by someone after responding to a post on a public page. I can no longer see that post, including my own comments! Not the best system in that regard, as I had insults thrown at me that I cannot see or respond to. In your case however I think blocking them should be fine.

[KT1978]

Are you sure she is ignoring you?

I don't respond to a few people in my groups because I don't know them very well, others I know better and have met IRL, so I lurk more on their posts. It's definitely not personal, sometimes I feel like I am being intrusive if I respond to someone I don't really know?

[elizabethany]

If you block her, she won't see any posts in comments you start, but she will see replies to you in other peoples comments.

It is really up to you, but you could just ignore her posts, and enjoy the group.

[nationalvelvet]

thanks but it will look obvious won't it.

ie. ME: The Weather is lovely today(she can't see this)
and my friends.

Mary: Weather is lovely and I hope you are enjoying your holiday.

So will she just see Mary's post and not mine? This will cause her to boil..she is pregnant and I dont want to cause her any upset...(that is the last thing I would want after she has had so many losses)
Funny thing is I do care for her but I hate being ignored.
She would read my posts..and it is creepy that she doesnt respond...

[nationalvelvet]

Are you sure she is ignoring you?

Yes. She is ignoring another lady too.
I have known her for about 7 years. The group is small - about 5 of us but only three of us post...The other two post occasionally.


I sent her a christmas card(by mail) and she didnt say whether she got it or not(with a gift for her baby to be)..

She ignores me on FB too(she is a friend there).

I have sent her PMs in the past and she ignores them.
I've phoned her and left a message on her answering machine (she lives in the US)
She never made mention of it...

I know.

She never responds to my post.
When I ask - "What are you girls doing for Christmas/New Year
she never responds...but another asked,
"Is it snowing near you""
and she replies about 7 times to that one post!!

I have known her to get rid of people in the group when they become confrontational.

she isn't a really nice person....sad really cause I care for her.
that's just me!

This post has been edited by lindenen: 01/01/2013, 05:00 PM

[blackcat20]

thanks but it will look obvious won't it.

ie. ME: The Weather is lovely today(she can't see this)
and my friends.

Mary: Weather is lovely and I hope you are enjoying your holiday.

So will she just see Mary's post and not mine?

If Mary responds to a post you start, then no, she wont see it.

[Baggy]

It will be noticeable.

She'll probably wonder where you have gone? Where your previous posts went? And why you aren't on her friends list any more?

Plus some conversations you are involved in won't make sense if she can't see your replies.


ETA: Why don't you just ignore her back? Instead of making things awkward in your Facebook group?

This post has been edited by Baggy: 01/01/2013, 05:08 PM

[Penguin78]

Why don't you ask her outright why she is ignoring you? With such a small group I think it's best to get things out in the open.