QUOTE (Phascogale @ 10/02/2013, 09:39 PM)
I always wanted 3 kids. No idea why. My husband wasn't sure.
But what we did do is compromise in a way. We decided that we could try for 6 months. If something happened then great but if it didn't then we could look back and say that we tried and it just wasn't meant to be. That way we wouldn't regret not trying. I was happy with this. This isn't something that everyone can do, especially if one partner is dead set against another child.
We sort of did the same. DH came around to the idea of zTTC #3 but with 6m of nothing happening I was about ready to pull the plug and leave it at two when we did fall PG.
Like your DH OP I didn't want to leave the baby/toddler phase to go back to it.