We have been invited to 2 birthdays on the same day at the same time. We got the invites the same day.
1st: Have known them for 1 year. See them most weeks (as part of a group). 30 minute drive. Casual party in park. Know many of the other attendees.
40th: Have known them for 10 years. See them every 2 or 3 months. 1 hour drive. Catered party in pub. Don't know many other guests.
Due to the locations, can't really go to both. Would be early for one then late for other.
I can't decide. DH is no help. Which party would you go to?