thanks everyone for your replies. Olivia cried as usual for her 9.30pm feed, but she wouldn't take the breast. She just kept pulling away and crying. I couldn't seem to make her feel better. I walked around her room ,patting her back, did the shhhh/pat method, ... nothing was consoling her.
I tried giving her some water in a bottle (50mL tops) and she surprisingly got the hang of it pretty quick. Now i just wish i'd put breast milk in there.
I've read elsewhere to avoid giving a bottle since it might make getting back on the breast more difficult.
I've made an appointment to see the ECC tomorrow for a proper talk. Its so hard listening to Olivia grizzling and crying on and off for 1 1/2 hours now. I just don't know what to do.