Well we only have my parents and dh's mum but already there's issues.
Up til now dh's mum has lived 3 hours away and we have not wanted to travel for the past few years due to pregnancy or having a little baby.
But now they've moved in just around the corner, and as we have not spent Christmas day with us for awhile she feels we have to go around there this year.
In the past year 2 new babies have joined my family and I would like to go and spend Christmas with my family, which consists of 9 adults and 5 kids and lots of fun. I do not want to spend the entire day with just my mil and her husband.
Of course we have to see her at some time during the day but I just know she's going to get sh*tty that we wont be having lunch there or spending the whole day with them
really loathe Christmas this year, it's a f*cking hassle I could do without. I'm only worried about making my own kids happy, everyone else can GGF