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NATPR
post 11/03/2012, 09:19 PM
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My son decided he wanted to go on a boys ski trip (with dad), staying overnight and doing a ski lesson for his bday (which falls in July), rather than a big friend party. I dont know why but I feel bad, as 5th birthday is meant to be 'the big one' LOL I'm being silly arn't I?? I am thinking of suggesting he chooses a couple of friends to take to the movies.Anyone else not had a big friend 5th?

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post 12/03/2012, 03:48 PM
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I don't think that it is an issue, not having a party. We do have a party every year for our kids. Nothing big, just parties at home. They do love it and spend the whole year thinking about the next one. So, for us it is a family tradition.

If it were us, the kids would have the skiing holiday (we go every year anyway and the kids start learning at 3) and then have a little party with their friends at home.


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staying overnight and doing a ski lesson for his bday

Since you are skiers, you probably realise this already. When the kids first learn, we take them for 5 days of skiing. One day, won't be enough for them to get confident or proficient.

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- NATPR   Not having a 5yo party   11/03/2012, 09:19 PM
- - marley*and*me   My 5yo just had a lunch with his cousins and grand...   11/03/2012, 09:23 PM
- - motomoto   The concept of 'big' number parties is rea...   11/03/2012, 09:24 PM
- - liveworkplay   Why is 5 a big one? I see 10, 13, 16, 18, 21 mil...   11/03/2012, 09:26 PM
- - 3littlegents   We dont do birthday parties... they are such a com...   11/03/2012, 09:28 PM
- - NATPR   liveworkplay, I sort of agree. Through friends at...   11/03/2012, 09:30 PM
- - NATPR   BTW the ski trip is something we wanted to do anyw...   11/03/2012, 09:35 PM
- - liveworkplay   I don't think you have missed anything. We had...   11/03/2012, 09:36 PM
- - carolinej   Park party after school? A few bowls of popcorn, ...   11/03/2012, 10:39 PM
- - woofer   We did a 5th birthday but that was the FIRST time ...   12/03/2012, 07:05 AM
- - Bobsygirls   I was 38 weeks pregnant for my DDs 5th birthday so...   12/03/2012, 07:08 AM
- - Etcetera   Ds1 didn't. He has just started school and we ...   12/03/2012, 07:20 AM
- - No girls here   I didn't do a 5th for DS2. His birthday is Ja...   12/03/2012, 07:29 AM
- - balletmom4   My 7yo DD has only had 2 parties in her life. My 1...   12/03/2012, 07:30 AM
- - meggs10   I don't get why people want to have big partie...   12/03/2012, 07:31 AM
|- - balletmom4   QUOTE (meggs10 @ 12/03/2012, 08:31 AM) I ...   12/03/2012, 07:58 AM
|- - CaptainOblivious   QUOTE (meggs10 @ 12/03/2012, 08:31 AM) I ...   12/03/2012, 03:53 PM
- - Freddie'sMum   We did a proper 'big' party for DD#1 when ...   12/03/2012, 07:34 AM
- - Maple Leaf   We only do a party every second year...so I suppos...   12/03/2012, 08:44 AM
- - BobTheKelpie   Don't let it bother you. We decided not to hav...   12/03/2012, 08:51 AM
- - katbalou   I didn't realise the 5th birthday was a 'b...   12/03/2012, 08:56 AM
- - shmach   Very few of the children in DS1's class had pa...   12/03/2012, 08:56 AM
- - PippityPip   I wouldn't feel bad. My daughter never got a p...   12/03/2012, 09:05 AM
- - Hermes   DD didn't have a party when she turned 5, we w...   12/03/2012, 09:11 AM
- - Swahili   Why is 5 a 'big one'. Bizarro. My DD didn...   12/03/2012, 09:18 AM
- - Julie3Girls   If he is turning 5 in July, I'm assuming he is...   12/03/2012, 09:19 AM
- - Princess.cranky.pants   QUOTE Why is 5 a big one? Because it's often ...   12/03/2012, 09:47 AM
- - chatem   I wouldn't worry OP. Your son has made a choi...   12/03/2012, 02:26 PM
- - brazen   why is the 5th special? for the record we only d...   12/03/2012, 03:40 PM
- - meggs10   QUOTE (CaptainOblivious @ 12/03/2012, 04...   12/03/2012, 07:52 PM
- - CaptainOblivious   QUOTE (meggs10 @ 12/03/2012, 08:52 PM) Wh...   12/03/2012, 08:27 PM


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