My cold is on the mend - thanks everyone!

Still tired as a result of the pregnancy - but glad to no longer be a sniffle fest and snot factory
pinkblue - oooh - so exciting to have your 12 wk scan
cordyline - I don't have a scale at home, so I've got no idea whether I've put on any - but my waist has expanded a little - wore my jeans for the first time in about 10 days and I have a little pouch hanging over. Safe to say I won't be wearing those anymore!
wtp - ooh - 12 hrs sounds nice
AFM, a very cruisy weekend of a bit of housework and cooking stuff for the freezer (for during the week when I feel too tired to cook). I've also had some daytime naps

We are visiting my in-laws today and DH will tell them our news - but asking them to keep it quiet from DH's siblings. And we'll be telling my brother tonight at dinner - very excited about that.
More family drama on DH's side. His sister and brother (and their families) have been slowly pulling away from us over the last few years. As soon as we started earning more $ than them and we built our new house. My SIL always has a backhanded comment for us (she might ask what my parents are up to, and in all honesty, I've told her that they're touring around France for 3 wks and I get an eye roll and "wouldn't it be nice if we all had that sort of money"). Since they moved to a new place in the inner west of Sydney, we asked if we could drop by one day with a house warming gift and she said "I don't think we could fit any people than just us in our place". Then days or weeks later, I see pics on FB of DH's parents and brother's family in their apartment celebrating something or having a get together.
At this point - we don't plan on telling his sister or brother that we're pregnant at all. I'm not fussed - I have a fantastic family, my immediate and my extended cousins etc and they've welcome DH into the fold. DH says that he's not worried about his family as long as he's got mine

Argh - sorry for the vent