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I can't believe that this has happened to us again!
8 pgs and 4 m/cs, what are the odds of that! I am feeling pretty p'o'd at the moment, wondering just what it is that God has in mind for me and why he keeps letting this happen.
Sorry if I sound so negative, but I am sure some of you can identify with me.
Ali
Mum to Katy, Tessa, Tadhg, Luka and 4 sweet angels.
AlottaPink
19/10/2004, 09:02 PM
You poor thing. I was just wondering the same thing myself. Why do we even fall pg in the first place if our angel is going to be taken away from us??? I don't blame you for being a bit p.o'd.
Tanya (31)
DH (30)
DD Audrey Jenna
TTC #2
kekaco
20/10/2004, 12:24 AM
Been there done that.........8 pregnancys.....with 4 miscarriages and 1 neonatal death.
I know what your feeling....a bit like......hows about a break purlessssssseee.
hugs
Mum to 3 that walk,5 that soar
Caelum, may you always dance with the angels 26/02/99
susieq2004
20/10/2004, 03:20 PM
I know how you feel and its horrible. It gets to the point where you are just so negative and cynical and think nothing will ever go right.
I am so sorry to hear it has happened for you again. But have strength it will happen. All up I have had 8 miscarrriages including 4 in a row in the last 10 months. I am now pregnant and they could never explain why the miscarriages were happenign or what we did different this time.
hugs take care and rest your body and your mind.
CJsMum
21/10/2004, 02:00 PM
In my prayers Ali. Life is so unfair.
Take care xx
Thanks for your thoughts ladies. Today everything is finally starting to really happen, lots of bleeding, some cramping and just a general feeling of "this is it".
I am feeling a little better today, I guess I had my hopes up and then they were dashed. My best friend is due the day before I would have been, and that is going to be very hard, but it is too good a friendship to loose over something like this. I guess I will have to be a very special aunt to her child.
Anyway, must away, feel another little gush.
Thanks again.
Ali
Mum to Katy, Tessa, Tadhg, Luka and 4 sweet angels.
Oneandabump
22/10/2004, 09:46 PM
Hiya, I'm a newbie. I've just had my 6th miscarriage, almost 2 weeks ago. I can so relate to the desperate wondering why I keep miscarrying... it doesn't seem to make sense. I just thank God for my precious daughter, every time I look at her. I don't understand why I keep losing my lil angels, but I have a quiet confidence that they're safe and happy. And even though it wasn't the perfect plan for my life to lose them, I know that eventually some good will come out of this nightmare.
I also am facing the same dread; my horrid brother's wife is due within days of when I would've been, so I'm loathing seeing her show... I feel awful begrudging them their bub, but I'm so raw, it's hard not too.
I wish I could say something or do something to take away that pain for you... you'd think I'd have thought of something useful to say after all my miscarriages!
Be gentle to yourself, thinking of you,
Faith & Hadassah
Hi Ladies
Just letting you know that yesterday I had a blood test and my hCG levels are consistent with a 6 wk pg! I am off for a scan on Monday, but with the ammount of bleeding that I have been having, I would be very surprised if anything is left.
We told the other kids last night and they were all very sad. They asked if it was a boy or girl baby and I told them that I didn't know, but that I had a feeling that it was a girl. DH said he also thought it was a little girl, so the other kids have named her Ruby. So now I have Simon, Sarah, Tobin and Ruby keeping each other company.
Will let you all know how I get on on Monday.
Ali
Mum to Katy, Tessa, Tadhg, Luka and 4 sweet angels.
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