We are giving you the chance to win one of three Goal and Reward Chart Packs from Elfie Love.

Elfie Love products, including its new Goal & Reward Chart Packs, are all designed with the intention to bring families together so parents can enjoy all the special moments with their kids and create a Happy Family Life together. Elfie Love is committed to creating fun way to help kids reach their full potential. Suitable for all ages and stages, three themed Goal and Reward Chart Packs provide hours of fun for the whole family and deliver the ultimate way to set important life goals while offering instant encouragement for positive behaviour.

My Amazing Day Pack encourages kids to establish a routine by setting daily habits for responsible and independent behaviour with goals such as brush my teeth, pack my schoolbag, help look after my pets and rewards such as invite a friend over, pocket money and family movie night.

My Excellent Health Pack encourages kids to eat well, exercise and take care of their minds and bodies every day with goals such as eat a healthy breakfast, eat my veggies, try a new sport and rewards such as bake some healthy cookies, plant a seed, and fun arty-crafty activity.

My Fantastic Values Pack recognises and encourages kind, caring and respectful behaviour. With goals such as be a good listener, recycle my rubbish, use good manners, and rewards such as extra story at bedtime, visit the library and mystery surprise.

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Prize:
3 Goal & Reward Chart Packs that include My Amazing Day Goal Reward Chart Pack, My Excellent Health Goal and Reward Chart Pack and My Fantastic Values Goal and Reward Chart Pack.
Each pack includes:
• Reward Chart
• 80 Well Done Encouragement Stickers
• 24 Goal and Reward Stickers
o Plus Personalise your own
o Plus Goals Guide with helpful tips
• 24 Reward Stickers
o Plus Personalise your own
o Plus Goals Guide with helpful tips
• Elfie Land Stickers
• Completion Certificate
• And more!

For more information: elfielove.com or www.facebook.com/elfielove.

Each pack is valued at $19.95 each. Total pack (3 titles) is valued at $59.95 each.
Total prize value being $179.85.

How to enter:
For your chance to win just reply below with the answer to the following question in 25 words or less: “What goals do you want to promote and encourage with your children in your family home?"

T &Cs pinned in competition forum.
Competition commences Wednesday 2 May 2012 until Wednesday 30 May 2012.

Basic courtesy and manners, that seem to be lacking in today's society. It doesn't hurt to say please or thank you, or even excuse me or bless you when someone sneezes. I want to promote and encourage great manners.....which they have at home, then seem to vanish when they are around other peoples little monsters who lack them.

Putting things away!! The goal is that everything has its rightful place, and there will be less mess and clutter, and more time to play if we don't have to spend ages picking up after ourselves. I want to teach them not to have to double handle, by immediately putting things straight back in their correct and rightful place......like we did before they came along!! Might even have to start rewarding their father for this too

Helpfulness, I really want to promote and encourage them to aid and assist wherever their little hands and bodies are capable. And I don't mean big things, little things like helping Mum set the table, or pairing socks when the washing comes in. By starting small, they'll grow up to be independent and able to do it all, and more, not waiting for someone else to do things for them. I want them to be go getters, not lazy bums!! Like their Mum who can and does do it all and so much more.

I want to promote kindness, cooperation and tolerance within my household. We are a blended family and sometimes there is a sometimes his vs hers vibe which I want to gently stop. We are all part of the same family now. Not everyone gets on all the time but if we have kindness, cooperation and tolerance we can sort out the disagreements quickly and in a non hurtful way.

For my high anxiety and quick to temper boy the two goals of being able to try a new thing, and to walk away

Elfie Love reward packs have perfectly encapsulated my goals for my children: look after themselves, follow their routine, be respectful and value their friends/family.

In Nanna's house the goal is for children and Nanna having an 'amazing day' so that there are surprises and happy stories to take home.

Their goals are achievable for ages 3 and 5 years. Tidying own room, pack up after play. Brush own hair and teeth. I'm there if need be, but it's the self-help that is giving independance; skills. Which is enough of a goal for now

I'd like to promote and encourage independence for themselves and respect for others (age appropriate for a 2, 4, and 6yr old) within our household!

Good manners since they reflect on what kind of parents and upbringing they have.

Honesty, Responsibility, particularly financial responsibility. I'll teach my children to work hard for what they want and to set financial goals so they can be in a better position than I am.

I need to teach my children independence in caring for themselves, others and their surroundings, especially as two of them are on the autism spectrum and struggle with this.

With 2 kids under 5 with special needs ,everyday is a reward in my household. to get through everyday the best we can is our goal.

To encourage good manners, listening skills and co-operation with daily activities, like getting dressed, putting toys away, going to bed at night ect.

Manners and toilet training will be my goal for my reward chart .My little girl is nearly three and I am hoping to get her toilet trained real soon.I think a reward chart will give my little girl extra incentive to learn

to be kind to everyone, always use your manners ... and always be there for your family and friends even through the tough times. i adore my kids and think they are so nice. i think i am doing a good job so far

My daughter currently cries and complains while getting dressed- shoes too tight, pants too long, anything! I want to encourage her to speak before grizzling.

I want to encourage mutual respect. The motto at school is Choose Respect. I want the same at home!!

My children are young but the goals I want them to achieve are nice manners and respect.

Seeing As My Son Is Disabled He Needs Extra Encourgement To Keep Him On Track So THis Pack Woud Be Fantastic For Him As I Have To Do Home Schooling Because Of His Problems

No biting and no hitting which has become a big problem in my house recently! Since bringing my newborn baby home, my two year old boy has developed bad behaviours and it is his 3 year old brother that is suffering most.

respect, empathy, helpful, understanding consequences, that everyone should work together (including parents) in this world instead of ME ME ME! And that there is always time for fun!

Learning to love and respect their parents and siblings and to love themselves and develop good values and a sense of personal inegrity.

I want to encourage them to believe in their own special talents, to have the confidence to try new things and go and enjoy the adventure of life!

I teach my children manners explaining why they must say please and thank you. I also teach them to put toys away and clean up as they go.

Problem solving rather than reacting!

RESPECT: for yourself & others, property, possessions
COURTESY: saying hello, goodbye, please, thank-you, excuse me, bless you
Also being kind & helpful and playing fair









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I have a 14month old and a 3.5 year old, so we'd focus mostly on;

- Being nice to each other, playing fair and sharing things.
- Tidying up after themselves (more so for the 3 year old).

My goals for my nearly 3 yr old are to have good manners in and out of the home, pack his toys away when he finishes..Share his things...

Master 3 going to sleep in his OWN bed. He sleeps with daddy in our fantastically expensive bed while I sleep on afoldout lounge I haven't slept beside hubby for almost 2 years!

We created a rod for our own back when he was very little but now it is time to FIX it. I would love to do so in a positive way - and soon. My back won't hold out much longer (or my patience for that matter).

Packing Away My youngest thinks everyone will do it for him.
Manners are something we are learning but he needs prompting and help.

that being good, listening and helping goes noticed, appreciated and rewarded....

Values - like respect, taking turns and cooperating - are goals I have for my twins. Rewarding their successes will help them see these values are important.

To be part of the family team so when she ventures into the world she will be able to be part of a team.

To be a good boy,
Like sharing toys!
Speaking well with manners,
The stuff Nan thinks really matters!

Respect, equality, teamwork and responsibility; so picking up toys, playing nicely & helping each other through the day.

Love and help each other - not rush to do 5 days of homework on one night (that's for me too) ....and sleep all night!

We want to foster and develop goals of loving, caring and sharing and for DD to poo daily!

I like to encourage rather than discourage, and boost my kids' confidence rather them drag them down. Positive remarks rather than negative!

My DS who has special needs relies on these reward charts for most day to day challangers and he responds really well to them. I draw up my own charts for him and put them on the fridge. There's honestly too many goals to mention!

Currently toilet training is the big goal here, and with a new bub on the way, encouraging sharing would make for a good year!

Our three year old foster child has just started having dry nights! We are so thrilled, it's such a milestone and we definitely want to encourage this... and motivate his little sister to start toilet training, too!

basic manners are a must, respectful of others and being able to tidy up after themselves are all things I teach my kids

I want to encourage values more than actions. Teach them to try the best, encourage others, be honest, show respect and help other people.

I have three sons. To be there own person, not feel the need to follow others under peer pressure, treat women with respect, and manners.

The Goals I was taught by my parents that rewards come with hard work and perserverance, that its hard to save and wait for things but when you do, the reward is sweet and good. That is what learning is all about

We promote kindness in our home and the ideals of the golden rule although we may not use that term. Thinking of others means no cruelty, no rudeness or lack of respect. We also cherish our children's short sojourn in childhood and try to keep adult entertainment and worries away.